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How to beat the dreaded Sunday night syndrome and sleep like a baby

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We all know how it goes: we have a great weekend losing ourselves in Netflix or hanging out with friends and then suddenly - it hits - the dreaded Sunday night syndrome, rendering us unable to sleep, even though we're absolutely ready to hit the hay. Here, sleep expert Dr Nerina Ramlakhan, gives her top 10 tips for beating Sunday night sleeplessness and getting that perfect eight hours in time for a productive Monday.

Many of my clients at my sleep workshops struggle to sleep on Sunday night in anticipation of the week ahead.  That feeling of needing to get a good night’s sleep so you’re on form the next day can, in itself, sabotage your sleep.  Ironically, in order to sleep well we almost need to not care about sleeping well - or at least trick ourselves into not caring. 

Here are some of my top tips for feeling rested on Monday morning (and maybe even getting an amazing night’s sleep on Sunday night):


1. Avoid getting into bad weekend habits

This means going to bed really late and over sleeping in the morning and over-indulging in alcohol which will disrupt your natural sleep cycle. Everything in moderation is the key.

2. Try to maintain routines

If you really need to be on form on Monday - and the week ahead - then try as much as possible to stick to your weekday routines over the weekend. Scientists believe a regular bed time and wake-up are essential to creating the perfect sleeping routine.

3. Get exercise on Sunday – and lots of fresh air and natural daylight if possible

One of the best things for sleep is excercise. It helps help your melatonin (the sleep hormone) to work better at night. However, don't exercise too late in the day, or the adrenaline will keep pumping and you'll struggle to fall asleep. 


4. Avoid over-napping on Sunday

Napping can be helpful to mop up fatigue from the week but if you’re getting into bed and sleeping for hours in the middle of the day, then this will disrupt your sleep at night.  Ideally, power nap for 20-30 minutes at some stage between 2 and 4pm and avoid getting too comfy.  Power napping is not sleeping but is a state of relaxation and everyone can learn to do it and benefit from it. 

5. Get organised for Monday

Sometimes we’re anxious on Sunday night because of an overwhelming sense of ‘a lot to do the next day’.  Write a list before you go to bed.  Get your clothes ready so that you know you’re control and get into bed knowing you're entirely prepared, before drifting effortlessly off to sleep.

6. Don’t fall asleep in front of the TV.

It's a common mistake and a terrible idea. The blue light from your TV, laptop or iPad stimulates your brain and uses up your vital melatonin and makes it harder to actually get to sleep once in bed. 

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7. Avoid tech before bed

Extend the no TV rule to all tech. Looking at your devices will wake you up and maybe even start you worrying about the next day.  Start an electronic sundown an hour or so before you get into bed.  If you watch TV, watch only one screen and avoid dual or triple screening.  Allow the process of watching one screen to be a form of meditation. Better than that: get into bed with a book 30 mins before bedtime, and let yourself drift into dreaming.

8. Use self-suggestion to dispel worry

Tell yourself throughout the day ‘I’m going to feel great on Monday evening if I don’t sleep tonight.' This kind of positive affirmation will help you feel great before you go to sleep. Some people even recommend writing down three things you're grateful for that day, which gives your mind a positive focus and distracts from worry.


9. Don’t worry about sleep – think more in terms of rest

If you’re really anxious about not sleeping use the word ‘rest’.  Tell yourself I’m really looking forward to resting tonight. Then, even if you can't fall asleep immediately, you know that your body is recuperating by simply lying in bed. Before you know it, you'll have drifted off. 

10. Trust your resourcefulness

If all fails, don’t panic.  Human beings are remarkably well adapted for dealing with the odd night of bad sleep.  How many times have you slept badly the night before an exam, presentation, interview but still managed to perform well the next day?  Trust that your energy and resourcefulness will kick in and don’t feed the ‘worry’ cycle. Eventually, your body will find a way to catch up.

Learn How to Sleep Like a Baby with Dr Nerina Ramlakhan at Stylist Live on Sunday 16 October. Get your tickets here.



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