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The surprising factor that is most likely to lead to divorce

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When we were children, we watched countless Disney princesses gallop off with their very own Prince Charming into the sunset for their ‘happy ever after’ ending.

What was never made clear, however, was what happened next. Did Cinderella grow tired of life as a full-time homemaker? Did Snow White miss living with her seven BFFs? And did Sleeping Beauty ever wake up one day and realise that she’d made a mistake?

After all, it is no secret that an estimated 42% of marriages in the UK alone now end in divorce – nor that divorce rates rose during the second half of the 20th century, as women found more economic independence as they entered the work-force.

But, despite what some traditionalists would have you believe, the feminist movement is not to blame for the increased divorce rates.

 Alexandra Killewald, a professor of sociology at Harvard University, has collected and studied date on over 6,3000 different-sex couples aged 18 to 55.

Looking specifically at the division of labour, financial resources, and the wives’ economic prospects following divorce, Killewald compared couples married in 1974 or earlier with those who tied the knot in 1975 or later.

And the results have proven, once and for all, that the onus of forging the perfect 'work-life balance' shouldn't be on women.

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The feminist movement is not to blame for the increased divorce rates, despite what some may tell you.

In fact, it should be placed on men.

Speaking to Science Daily, Killewald explained that men without a full-time job are far more likely to see their marriage end in tatters than those who do.

"While contemporary wives need not embrace the traditional female homemaker role to stay married, contemporary husbands face higher risk of divorce when they do not fulfil the stereotypical breadwinner role, by being employed full-time," she said.

Killewald added: "Often when scholars or the media talk about work-family policies or work-family balance, they focus mostly on the experiences of women.

"Although much of the responsibility for negotiating that balance falls to women, my results suggest one way that expectations about gender and family roles and responsibilities affect men's lives, too: men who aren't able to sustain full-time work face heightened risk of divorce."

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