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Wisdom we would share with our 20-year-old selves

When you reflect on your twenties - no matter how near or far you are from them now - what's the one piece of advice you wish you could give yourself?

This is what we asked the readers of Stylist.co.uk and were overwhelmed with pearls of wisdom and humorous, and sometimes heartbreaking, insights.

From touching anecdotes to practical tips, we've illustrated the best words you shared with us.

No matter if you're in your 20's or if they are behind you, there are some important insights here for women of every age.

(Compiled and designed by: Sejal Kapadia, Images: Rex Features, Thinkstock)



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