And although Sex and the City has long vanished from our TV screens, there’s still plenty of people willing to pay homage to fictitious queen of the confessional and continue her life musings legacy.

This includes the folks over at fan-run site Every Outfit on Sex & the City, who this week have revealed an on-point SATC meme that sums up everything that distracts us in life.

As Time reports, the gag is set around a behind-the-scenes image from the show.

Stars Sarah Jessica Parker, Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon are pictured gathering around actor John Corbett (who played Carrie’s boyfriend Aidan for a while in the series).

The photo is then overlaid with the conflicting forces that get between us and living our best lives:

This Sex and the City meme brilliantly captures the chaos of our lives