“Just as charm is a tool for control, so is coercion, isolation, guilt-tripping, threat, stalking and violence,” says Level Up's Janey Starling. 

Think Marilyn Manson is "too nice" to be an abuser? Read this

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Just as charm is a tool for control, so is coercion, isolation, guilt-tripping, threat, stalking and violence 

Abusers often use their wealth and status to try and silence women, telling that that no one will believe them  

“If we’re looking for monsters, we’ll never find them.” 