Love Life review: why Anna Kendrick’s BBC drama is such a reassuring watch right now

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Anna Kendrick’s new romantic comedy series, Love Life, is available to watch (read: binge) on BBC iPlayer now – but is it any good? 

As a single woman living in a pandemic, choosing what to watch on these dark, long autumn nights is proving tricky. 

I nearly started rewatching Normal People the other nightthen remembered how horny and frustrated it left me feeling first time round (I’m not allowed to snog someone on a second date, why would I want to watch a marathon shagging session?). 

I had to stop halfway through Ratched because each episode literally left me feeling sick, stressed and hopeless in a world I’m already losing a lot of faith in. 

And, although I enjoyed the first couple of episodes of Katherine Ryan’s The Duchess, a series that dissects the issues around 30-something women’s fertility rates isn’t what I need right now.

The only shows I’ve allowed into my life over the last few weeks are tepid: the comforting new The Great British Bake Off series, familiar and funny Sex and The City reruns on Now TV, and the BBC’s delightful adaptation of David Nicholls’ Us

But I’ve just added a brand new series to the “comforting, fun and reassuring” entertainment canon in this pandemic – and it’s taken me by surprise. 

When a fellow single friend in lockdown recommended Love Life, starring Anna Kendrick, I was sceptical. 

Don’t get me wrong, I love a romantic comedy. But after months of revaluating my own dating life during such a stressful time, I’m cautious about watching any neatly packaged fictional romances play out in front of my eyes right now. I’m trying, but struggling, not to let the pandemic exacerbate any feelings of fear and doubt over my single status. I don’t want a 90s Hugh Grant film to further complicate things.

However, I trusted my pal’s judgment. She has endured daily seven-minute-long voicenotes about bizarre dates, relationship regrets and bad men, after all. She knows the score. 

After bingeing the first seven episodes of Love Life, what I’ve seen so far has actually left me feeling more reassured and seen than most other things I’ve watched this year.

Anna Kendrick in Love Life.
Anna Kendrick stars in Love Life, which is available on BBC iPlayer.

The HBO 10-part series, which is now available to watch on BBC iPlayer, is billed as being a “journey from first love to last love, and how the people we’re with along the way make us into who we are when we finally end up with someone forever”.  Each episode explores a relationship, one-night stand and romantic encounter that leads Derby to her present life. 

It actually sounds like exactly the kind of thing I don’t want to watch, right?

But it’s just so… realistic and relatable. 

There’s the episode where Darby feels inferior around her older, more successful and financially secure boyfriend. And the scene where, during a dry patch, Darby can’t even rely on her trusty vibrator for an orgasm. 

Then there’s the weirdo she has a one night stand with to regain a sense of control. And, in a flashback during Darby’s therapy session, we see how her first love affected the rest of her romantic life. 

In an especially poignant episode, Darby reassesses the most important relationship in her life: the one she has with her mum. She also realises she married a man who is awful to her because she, wrongly, thinks marriage is the thing that will make her truly feel loveable. 

Throughout all this, she navigates it with honest, judgment-free conversations with her best friends – just like we all do. 

Love Life
Zoe Chao plays Darvy's best friend, Sara, in Love Life.

Of course, it’s not perfect (I’m fed up of these narratives being told by women who went to private school and can afford to live in a swish New York apartment on their own by the time they’re 27). It’s not groundbreaking, either. But it is everything I need.

The series doesn’t leave me feeling “optimistic” about “finding love”. It doesn’t stop any fears I have about the future or sadness I have about the past. It just makes me feel normal. It reminds me that most of us don’t have it perfect when it comes to our love lives. We all go through periods of loneliness, depression, self-doubt, and pain when it comes to dating. 

We’ve all got stuff we’d rather forget. But life always goes on and gets better – pandemic or not. 

I’ve still got a few episodes to go, but even if this turns out to be another ending tied up with a bow, I know that it wasn’t neatly done. Darby will have made one heck of a mess to get there; but it’s a beautiful mess – one that I’m still making in my own life and have no intention of tidying until I really want to, on my own terms.

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Hollie Richardson

Hollie is a digital writer at Stylist.co.uk, mainly covering the daily news on women’s issues, politics, celebrities and entertainment. She also keeps an ear out for the best podcast episodes to share with readers. Oh, and don’t even get her started on Outlander…