You don’t have to stick to pinks and reds

Douglas says: “Valentine’s Day is a personal occasion, so I recommend personalising your tablescape colour scheme to reflect that. If your Valentine is a fan of the classic pink and red combo that’s great, but if they appreciate a different approach – maybe green and whites, vibrant jewel tones or pale pastels – then I recommend embracing that look for a Valentine’s table with a twist. Without customisation, Valentine’s Day decorations can run the risk of being a little clichè, so adding a personal touch guarantees a unique look your diner will appreciate.”

Pick a theme first

Douglas recommends: “Pick a theme and select colours that resonate with you and your diner(s). Then select materials, textures, and accessories that enhance your chosen theme. Incorporate your diner’s favourite flowers or blooms with special significance (e.g. wedding bouquet flowers) into napkins, tablecloth, or candles. You can even base the theme on a shared place, such as a first date spot or vacation destination, by centering the food, drink, music, and decor around that location. Sketch out a rough plan allowing enough space for table essentials so you know how much space you have to play with. If you have a small table with limited space, consider using the space above or around the table as well.”

Add depth with layers

“Layer up your table decorations by placing items at varying heights for interest,” says Douglas. “Tall candles are a great way to add height as well as atmosphere and can set a romantic mood. Handwritten place cards can be created from pieces of card or more unusual materials like wallpaper offcuts, hand printed paper, fabric remnants, leaves collected on a romantic walk or even on the back of romantic photos. Make sure to not overcrowd the table with decorations and leave space for plates and glasses. Ensure to set the scene with your partner’s favourite music and appeal to all senses.”

Get thrifty

Douglas says: “If you’re on a budget, opt for a pared-back ‘less is more’ approach with perhaps a statement floral centrepiece or rustic homemade decorations and accessories. Forage flowers that can be dried and scattered over the table for free to make table confetti. Using a linen bedsheet as a tablecloth can save money and create a luxe look. If buying new tableware, avoid anything too obviously Valentine’s-themed. That way, the candles, glasses, napkins, crockery and cutlery can all be used again. Finally, look at charity shops to find preloved or vintage tableware to adorn your Valentine’s table.”

Find an accent colour that pops

“Stick to the designated colour palette and use materials that will complement rather than clash,” advises Douglas, “but perhaps add an accent colour to ensure your tablescape really pops. This could be in the form of striking candlesticks or bold napkins that bring out one of the colours in your flower arrangements. If you are styling your tablescape for an intimate dinner, I wouldn’t feel restricted by the decor in the room, as this is an opportunity to indulge in escapism and make the table the focal point. With low lighting in the room and flickering candles casting light and shadows over your thoughtfully curated tablescape, practicalities will be far from your mind.”

How to craft the perfect Valentine’s Day tablescape