First of all, instead of using the words “have to”, we should use “want to”, he tells Indy 100.

By doing this, we take ownership for our actions, and ensure that we understand our role in the choices we make.

In using “have to”, we exaggerate the obligatory element of our work tasks, and have a less open attitude towards doing them.

And when you’re faced with a problem, don’t say “but”, say “and”.

The word “but” indicates that the problem creates an either/or choice, when both elements of the issue need to be considered on equal footing to create a solution.

Using these two phrases at work could help boost your career