“I'm a waitress at a mid-range priced bar/grill. Just yesterday, a younger couple came in, and as I greet them I ask if they want anything besides water.

Conversation is as follows… Girl: may I have a Coke? Or Pepsi? Boy: God, Erin. I'm paying. Girl: water will be fine actually.

My heart immediately sank, because you bet your ass he tipped less than 10% too.”

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Redditor SovietSocialistRobot, meanwhile, confirmed our suspicions that a man who refuses to let you order what you want is a major red flag.

“It was an attractive young woman and an average-looking man [...] All goes well until it comes time for entrées. This guy orders a fuck ton of ribs and refuses the girl her original order of a house sirloin [...] The woman stops talking completely while the man talks about some crazy party he went to. The man guzzles a few Strawberry Quencher Iced teas, says, 'Seeya Friday, bitch' and leaves her with the bill.

She said the guy seemed nice when they talked on Tinder, but was very uncomfortable with him in real life, and afraid to say something. A co-worker and I paid for her meal [...] later she and the same co-worker starting dating, and they are engaged now.”

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