There are (obviously) plenty of problems at play here. First and foremost, there’s the idea that a grown man should be treated like a child (and allowed to behave like one). On top of taking care of the children, the household and ⁠— I don’t know ⁠— their own lives, women should not have to shoulder the responsibility of their husband, too.

Secondly, we shouldn’t have to reward men for doing something women are commonly expected to get on with. A man doing the washing up is not an angelic, charitable act ⁠— it’s a grown-up contributing to a household they are also responsible for.

As is expected, Twitter had a few things to say about the worrying attitudes conveyed in the chart.

“You don’t get a prize for taking care of your own kids,” one user wrote. “Does mom get a chart? What are her prizes?”

This sticker chart from hell highlights a big issue in heteronormative relationships