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How to look after your mental health if you’ve been made redundant

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Losing your job is incredibly difficult – here’s how to look after your mental health if you’re dealing with redundancy right now.

At a time when uncertainty and stress surrounding the coronavirus pandemic is already taking its toll on our mental health, facing an unexpected life change such as redundancy can be incredibly difficult.

Not only can losing your job leave you feeling stressed and anxious about other areas of life such as your personal finances or housing situation, it can also leave you feeling isolated and unsure about the future.

Losing your job is emotionally challenging at the best of times. But with the added pressures of a recession and global pandemic to deal with, it’s completely understandable if you find yourself struggling with your mental health.

With that being said, if your mental health has taken a hit as a result of being made redundant, there are things you can do both in the short and long term to help you cope.

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Losing your job is incredibly difficult, so it's completely normal to feel anxious and low as a result.

Emma Mamo, head of workplace wellbeing at the mental health charity Mind, shared her advice with Stylist. “Redundancy can affect our mental health,” she explains. “For many of us, our work is not just a vital source of income but also an important part of our identity, helping us feel we are making a useful contribution. It can also provide us with a sense of purpose, a routine, and a way to meet new people.”

Mamo says that, whether or not your job loss was expected or sudden, it’s normal to experience a wide variety of feelings – and it’s important to give yourself some time to adjust.

“You may feel a range of emotions – shock, anger, resentment, relief and much more – all in a short period of time,” she explains. “The current economic situation means that, unfortunately, redundancies are unavoidable – try to remember that being made redundant is nothing to be ashamed of; you are not to blame.”

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Mamo continues: “Make sure you give yourself space and time to express these feelings and talk to other people about what you are experiencing – support is available.”

On top of dealing with these difficult emotions, you may find yourself dealing with feelings of low self-esteem – especially if your work is an important part of your identity. To tackle this, Mamo says the most important thing you can do is spend some time reflecting on what you want from your next chapter.

“If your job has always been a big part of your life, being out of work might have a big impact on your self-esteem and sense of identity, and you may wonder who you are without it,” she says. “It’s also likely you’ll be spending a lot more time at home than you usually would, and you may be unsure how to fill your time if you aren’t in a position to find another job.”

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“If your job has always been a big part of your life, being out of work might have a big impact on your self-esteem and sense of identity, and you may wonder who you are without it.”

Mamo continues: “Remember to be kind to yourself, practise some self-care, and spend some time reflecting on what makes you feel happy and fulfilled. Perhaps you could write a list of all the skills and qualities you have, and take a moment to celebrate them. 

“Depending on your trade, now might not be the ideal time to find a new job, but keeping yourself focused and setting yourself challenges can help to improve your self-esteem for when the right tole comes up. You could also consider volunteering or learning a new skill.

Finally, Mamo recommends, make sure to focus on the things that are in your control. At a time of such uncertainty, dealing with redundancy may leave you feeling lost and overwhelmed – but there are things you can do to help yourself feel a bit more grounded. 

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“Consider polishing your CV and reaching out to your old contacts,” she suggests. “Knowing your rights and planning and organising your money can also be helpful. 

“When we’re struggling with our mental health it can be hard to manage our finances, and if we’re worried about money it can make our mental health worse. Creating a budget can be a good first step if you’re not sure where to start.”

For more information on how redundancy can affect your wellbeing, including how to look after your mental health when you’re worried about money, you can check out the Mind website.

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