While we don’t have the paparazzi clamouring for shots of us with our romantic partner, many of us feel we’re faced with a somewhat similar dilemma when it comes to social media. How much is too much when it comes to sharing posts about your relationship?

According to the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, when people post their relationship highlights for the virtual world to admire, it signifies that people are anxious about their sponsored_longform.

“On a daily basis, when people felt more insecure about their partner’s feelings, they tended to make their relationships visible,” wrote the study’s authors. “These studies highlight the role of relationships in how people portray themselves to others.”

Emma Watson has a good reason for never talking about her love life