You know the drill by now, people: this article contains spoilers for the seventh season of Game of Thrones, so don’t even think about reading on if you’re not up to date with the HBO show.

Ever since the Stark family was torn apart back in the very first season of Game of Thrones, we’ve longed for the surviving siblings to be reunited. And, in the penultimate series, our wish was granted: Arya, Bran, and Sansa are back in Winterfell.

But things have… well, things have certainly changed between them. For starters, Bran (Isaac Hempstead Wright) has been almost entirely stripped of his humanity during his time beyond The Wall – and he apparently is far closer to the Night King than any of us ever realised. Sansa (Sophie Turner) seems to have picked up far too many tricks from Cersei Lannister, Margaery Tyrell, Petyr ‘Littlefinger’ Baelish, and Ramsey Snow. And Arya? Well, Arya (Maisie Williams) is a deadly trained assassin now, hell-bent on killing anyone and everyone who has wronged the Stark family.

One thing that hasn’t changed, though, is Sansa and Arya’s notoriously fraught relationship.

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