A document by the National Police Chiefs Council – serendipitously leaked just before the Budget – has revealed that they are asking for an extra £18 million to deal with domestic violence cases. A closer read showed that incidents have dramatically increased since 2013 – by 61% for domestic violence, while sexual assaults have surged by 130% since 2012. I was pleased.

“Ah,” you are thinking. “She’s finally lost her mind. Well, times are tough and we’re all struggling…” No. That day is undoubtedly coming, and yes, I have become unnaturally adept in the post-Referendum, Trumpocene era at shovelling through gargantuan mounds of sh*t to find the single gleaming grain of hope therein, but actual insanity is not yet here.

But here is the grain: a rise in crimes according to police stats is not the same as an actual increase. It often simply means that there has been an increase in reporting and recording them. And that, according to research earlier this month into how the police investigate domestic violence, is at least partly what’s happening here.

Victims are finally feeling able to come forward, fuelled perhaps by recent high-profile moments of support. Like the open letter to a DV victim by the Lochaber and Skye police, encouraging her to come forward and assuring her of their support. Or Mayor of London Sadiq Khan’s support for a register of abusers. A fight to include it in a DV bill began in September, after a five-year-old boy was murdered by his stepfather, a man the boy’s mother had no idea had a history of violence with other partners. In short, steps like these mean victims are hopefully becoming more confident about being believed. I’m old enough to remember early campaigns by charities for “battered women”, as they were known, being greeted with rolled eyes, while the idea of taking incidents to the police was risible.

Why we shouldn't lose hope at rising domestic violence numbers