If you’re looking to cuff someone for longer than just the season, Tinder’s global relationships insight expert Paul C Brunson has some advice.

Be true to what you really want

“We’re all busy in the end-of-year rush,” Brunson says, “but cuffing season is a good time to reflect on your dating journey so far and consider what it is you’re potentially looking for in a partner in 2024. If what you are looking for is a long-term relationship, own it. Don’t be afraid to tell potential matches what you want. Be authentic to yourself; honesty really is the best policy.”

Activity dates help form strong connections

Brunson says: “Just because it’s cold and dark, it doesn’t mean you can’t go out and do something fun with a potential match. In fact, Tinder’s latest research revealed 71% of singles say they prefer an activity-based date, and 97% say they believe regular IRL date nights are important. So whether it’s a long winter’s walk with a hot chocolate, a session on the ice rink or a cooking lesson to brush up on your culinary skills, go on the date with your new flame and make memories that could be the foundation of a long-term connection.”

Love yourself first

“Cuffing season can be a challenging time for many when you see your friends doing romantic activities with their significant others,” Brunson says. “But my biggest piece of advice would be not to rush just because everyone else is seemingly finding success in love. Everyone is on their own dating journey, so take that pressure off and do what feels right for you, when it feels right for you – and you may just find your long-term match is closer than you think.”

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