PMI has consequences

Although PMI may seem like a fairly harmless habit in relationships, it does have its consequences.

Overwhelming your date: “It might create a sense of pressure or discomfort, especially if the recipient isn’t ready for such depth of information,” she says.

Loss of intrigue: Share too much too soon and the relationship will lose its intrigue. According to Alderson: “A gradual unfolding of personal details can contribute to the anticipation and enjoyment of discovering more about each other over time.”

Misalignment of emotional intimacy: “This difference may lead to one person feeling more invested or emotionally connected than the other, which can cause issues in the relationship,” she says.

Potential for misinterpretation: In some cases, PMI can lead to misunderstandings and discomfort. “Without a solid foundation of trust and understanding, your date may not have the context to interpret the information accurately,” says Alderson.

Limited room for growth: Relationships should be allowed to develop naturally over time. Says Alderson: “Oversharing early on can leave little room for growth and discovery as a couple. This can hinder the development of a strong, lasting bond.”

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