One writer, who has been single for the last five years, explains the importance of balancing strength and vulnerability in the quest for new love.

Why it's not a weakness to want a relationship

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However, while I know I don’t need a partner, the fact is that I’m at a point where I want one. So why does this feel like some sort of weakness?

 If I’m gonna say ‘I love you’ I need to know what the ‘I’ is.

One single writer shares her mixed thoughts about looking for love.