Are you being vultured? Here’s what to do next

So, you think you’re being vultured? What should you do next? Well, according to Alderson, figuring out what to do with a vulture isn’t always easy. After all, they can be manipulative, persistent, and they’re often already ingrained in your social circle.

“First, trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right about someone’s intentions, listen to your gut,” she suggests.

The next step is to set clear boundaries.

“Let the vulture know what you’re comfortable with and what you aren’t,” she says. “For example, you might say, ‘I need time to heal, so I think it’s best that we don’t become too close right now.’”

In some cases, you might even want to cut the vulture out of your life completely. If that’s your decision, make sure you’re clear with them.

You might also want to focus on healing from the experience to ensure you can rebuild your trust for other future partners. “Take the time you need to process what happened and get back on track with your life,” she says. “Spending time with friends, family and other supportive individuals who can provide you with a safe environment can help. In some cases, it can be beneficial to speak to a trained professional who can provide support.”

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