“No one expects my fiancé to be taking an equal share in planning our wedding”: why assumed weaponised incompetence is so frustrating

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Why weaponised and assumed incompetence is so frustrating

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Less than 7% of couples share housework equally

“The idea that my partner is hapless and I’m acting in a mother/maid role is deeply problematic.”